We have no control over what each generation does. The only thing you can do is to try and pave the way, and point. The goal (in my mind) is to ensure that the opportunity is there.- The key is parental love and interest in the kids. This article from the wsj ends with just that conclusion.-http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424053111903918104576502850126890100.html?KEYWORDS=Peggy+Noonan