It makes sense. I don't decide to breath. I can't realy decide to start "doing drugs". We clearly do not have 100% free will. What is funny is that they think it is a new discovery. I point to the quote "give me a boy and I give you the man..." from way back.-That being said. Try and lay out what you do know first. Then be honest about it. A person can change their mind when this is done properly. The brain can do this. Find a teacher with integrity. A few simple questions will tell ya